I'm sorry to hear that. Firstly I am sorry you feel unheard and unattended. Secondly I feel mostly doctors do try to control anxiety and related symptoms but there's no reason that they cannot treat you medically simultaneously. I have many patients who come with anxiety, usually once their medicines start effecting you a lot of tiredness improves. Along with that there could be some muscular issues like fibromyalgia that your doctors can explore. I read through your symptoms would you like to share what medicines you've been taking, for how long, and which ones are you now? Also are you going for therapy? What medical treatments have you received for aches? Kindly write back so we can guide you more.